Wednesday, July 20, 2011
What is the theme in this story?
C (overcoming nature) seems to make the most sense. "As if the gods were testing him, the heavy overcast sky suddenly let loose a blizzard, but Daemyn refused to let the blinding snow hinder him." That sentence shows that when nature tried to stop him, he didn't allow it to. He also tries to overcome nature by finding a way out of his mother's death.
Why does he seem to like the idea I have little confidence?
Well, people with low self esteem and no confidence tend to be push overs and easily manipulated to do whatever other people want. So my guess is, he thinks you will eventually cave in and then he'll have you to use as a play toy.
Which personality trait will HONESTLY get yu farther in life ? humble or prideful?
It depends where you want to get in life. If you want that kind of selfish fame, pride will probably benefit you to get there. However, humility is a much better thing to have if you want to have a good impact on the world and people around you.
What do you think of this tattoo design? Any suggestions?
Good question...quite lengthy. My opinion is as follows. If you choose the calf area for a tattoo...it is advisable to place it on the side. If you get it on the back of your calf...make sure it doesn't go near the back of your knee. That particular area IS PAINFUL!! As is under your arm, by the armpit area. I have ALL black/grey tatts and I LOVE them!! The shading seems to look better than on colored tattoos.
Does the noble lie explain Judaism?
I mean some things, like adultery laws, modesty laws, monetery laws, make sense. But others, like eating crackers on passover and waving a branch on succot don't.
I want to kill someone and my reason is kinda stupid. How to suppress this feeling?
Your a psychopath no doubt about it your focused on something so insignificant and making it an issue which means you have some psychopathic tendencies or have some sort of mental issue. Because a normal person would not react the way you are. So go to the doc and get checked out for ocd or any latent problems.
What do you think modesty is?
My 10 year old nephew asked me what is modesty and i do not know what to tell him so he understands. so here is my question to all of you. What is modesty and What do you consider "modest"? What are some things you would consider modest and what are some things you would not consider modest. Be specific please.
Friend likes two people who should she go with?
My friend keeps asking me who which one she should rather be with? The one guy she met at camp. He is really smart, nice, and funny. He acts kind of stupid but he is really smart. Shes only none him for a week and she hasn't talked to him for a couple of days. The other guy is mechanical smart, nice, and funny. She's known him for 4 years. He really likes her they are really good friends and has asked her out a bunch of times but had to reject because she couldn't date she can now and she told him but she doesn't know if she wants to. She wants to hang out with the guy from camp more so she gets to know him better. Is that a bad idea? And which one should she be with?
19 years old, almost 20, terrified of sleeping alone?
Oh man that's sucks! I have terrible night anxiety as well, I am afraid of the dark and thankfully I have a boyfriend I live with, but he works 3 nights out of the week for graveyard and it's terrible having to sleep alone. Since medication doesn't seem to be the answer you are looking for you need help from a doctor. There are no remedies you can learn from us, it's a physiological thing that you need to get worked out. I wish you luck and hope you are soon anxiety free.
Do any religious people believe in evolution?
Not trying to stir, I am just curious because there are so many religions and different views. I even know of gay friendly churches (where they are accepted as being gay and don't try to suppress or brain wash them - they truly accept them for who they are), so surely some believe in evolution.
If a guy was mad at his girl and she tried to cuddle up on him one night would he give into it?
Unlike girls, we get over fights immediately. The second we get some air and cool down everything is over in our mind. (unless you effed up big time) He's just putting on a show. I assure you he will not reject you.
If your spouse is perfectly happy with your marriage, but you aren't...?
how do you broach that topic, especially if you've been discontent for some time but have been suppressing your true feelings because you don't want to hurt them?
How would you define modesty?
I think the concept of modesty spills into several different areas of life. To me, modesty is not bragging about or showing off your possessions or financial/vocational prowess. It is not bragging about or showing off your intelligence, social connections, or anything else that you could use to make yourself seem "better" than other people. Also, there is modesty with the body, meaning that you don't flaunt your body so that the opposite sex desires you physically, saving yourself only for your significant other.
I would to leave my flat but my land lord reject and he asked me to pay him 2000 p just to end the contract?
i signed contract for 12 months and i lived in the flat for one months and i decided to leave it but the agent reject and ask me to pay 2000 p to leave they are already have the deposit so if i leave it and tell them that am gonna leave and i would not pay for the rest of the months what can they do if i am broke do they gonna sue me if thy will i will not have enough money to pay
Dreams- Need help understanding whats going on.?
Please don't comment unless you have useful information about this subject. Everyone dreams, and people have a lot of different ones But mine are not your usual dreams. Ever since I was little I've noticed something weird happening when i would dream. I can control my dream, not the scenario or the plot or anything, but just like i can type right now because I want too, so too in the dream i could. Just like if it were real life I could maneuver, and do what i wanted to, go where i wanted to go. Not only that i could think logically, determine right from wrong, and so forth. I can not only see, and hear in my dreams but taste, smell, and even feel. I could feel everything, even pain. When these type of dreams occur it happens mostly the same way every time. I start off just like anyone else, your dream self goes and does what it wants with you having no control of it but then(and this is hard to explain), I sort of see myself in third person only for a brief moment before i go inside my body. I see a sort of clear and transparent barrier right before I enter inside my body, once I enter though I can realize it and know I'm their, I'll test it out by trying to control my movement and thoughts. After that I know I'm dreaming but I feel as if I'm awake. As the dream progresses I begin to forget what's real and what's not, so over the years I have came up with a way when for when I dream and some what tell. And it's a simple solution, I just use what I know from the awake self and say how or why it doesn't correlate to what is happening right now. But this isn't what scares me, it's the pain I feel. It feel just as real as if i were to happen in the real world or my awake self. So i have been trying to suppress my dreaming. Now for those of you who don't know you dream every night but you don't remember every dream, some nights you don't remember any. So that's what I mean by suppressing my dreams, I'm just making it to where I don't remember them cause they were not a big enough dream, by doing that I don't have time to be inside my dream. However lately, when I do dream it's getting harder and harder to wake up. Nothing that you would normally do to wake yourself up works. In order for me to wake up, I have to find specific spots in my dream so i can wake up. But the spots are random and I never know where to go, and when I have nightmare it is worst. Someone shaking me and my alarm clock going doesn't always wake me anymore, and I'm getting enough sleep, it only happens when i dream and I'm able to control it. I just need some help. Please if you know nothing about dreams or the human brain don't comment with your opinions, I need websites and facts. Things that can actually help. I'm already looking for researchers who can help me so if you know anyone with knowledge on this who can do testing please let me know.
What sense this poem makes to you? Where do you place it from 0-9?
a very good sonnet. surely, a man with this kind of love could change your perspective of the word love. i will give it an 8 though, you can add some more rhymes in order to make it more interesting and not boring to read, just a thought.
Bad childhood and my extreme anger?
Never, ever allow yourself to think about anything that you wouldn't want to get caught doing. Our fantasies is what makes us who, and what we are. We have the power to decide, what we want to think about. And all of our actions are the results of us getting used to our feelings, ( thoughts ) whether good or evil. Your early interest in porn is not that strange. Both boys and girls want to know everything. Its part of growing up. Your interest in fire might only be the result of an idol mind. Find a hobby. Drawing or painting is fun and can pay off in $$$. Never say you can't do anything artistic. Have you seen some of that stuff out there. I also had a hard childhood, beatings just because I was born during the grate depression when people could hardly feed themselves. Deprived of an education, put to hard work. I to was molested. We must rise above our hardships and do the best we can. Hurting someone else is not the answer. Taking control of our thoughts that control our actions is the answer. I hope something I have said helps you. If it hasn't, talk to a professional. You deserve a happy life. Please know that I care. Good luck.
Can you help me in this poem? (grammatical mistakes) and also if you may place it on the scale from 0-9?
Zahid my friend. I'm mystified with "...cure modesty" for to me, modesty is not a disease but I might have missed on what you meant and I will appreciate it if you enlighted me. L3S1, ..."if in wealth you are;" a period after "clue". S2 - "tension's abundance" or "tensions abundant". L4 there should be a "The" before "growth". For S3 "Lets" should be "Let's". I think you meant ""devil friends"" not "devils friends". A period after "ends" of L2S3. For L3, "come a step..." and period after "ahead". and a period after "bed". Anyway, these are merely my opinions, it's still your call میرے اچھے دوست
Are tankinis.......weird? :O?
Okay, well, my religion (it's nothing weird, but still, don't want this to turn into a fight. xD) has not RULES but more as guidelines, and modesty is one of them, so no bikini for me.. Considering even if there wasn't anything said about no bikinis or anything showing the midriff, no way convincing my Dad. (A lil protective...). So, I'm a tad self conscious, and was wondering if anyone things tankinis are like lame? I don't want to look weird. Any links to cute tankinis? Thanks sooo much for your feedback!! :D
How can I help my friend who was raped?
let her know that you're there for her. tell her that you're her shoulder to cry on. take her for a full on girls night out. spend all your time with her. make sure she's getting what she needs. try to keep her happy. let her know if she's on the verge of suicide that you will be very upset. if it's really really bad and has mentally affected her, i think she might need professional help
Is it easier accept or reject a friend who has feeling for you?
I told my friend over FB I have a crush on her so she can reject me so I can get over it. She said it was really sweet but thats all she would. I sent her another asking her to say nothing is happening between us. She is not responding. Is hard for a girl to reject a guy
Why are boys allowed to be shirtless in the presence of girls at a swimming pool?
why is this allowed? Wouldn't this make girls feel uncomfortable? Why is no sense of modesty and decency maintained?
Pokemon Black and white, trainers? (Seriously???)?
Dude, I'm totally there with you man those people are ****** stupid. Like, forreal you'll be lookin for a simple pokemon, even a rattatta or something, and there's always like 20 people that want nothing but lvl. 100 legendarys.. They're pure dumbasses.
Is it offensive for a non muslim to wear a veil?
She is a British woman (christian) and whilst happy with her own lifestyle, she admires muslim views on modesty. Would it be seen as wrong or offensive for her to wear a veil or headscarf if she wished? What are your opinions and views on this?
Tuesday, July 19, 2011
How do i convince my boyfriend to get tested?
its been 8 months with my boyfriend, he has a big ego. i talked to him about getting tested and he totally rejected the idea. we've gotten into numerous arguements over me convincing him to get tested with me, but hell always say, "hell no, im not gonna get tested!", "i know im not sick", this is really getting me concerned, because now im starting to think that he might be infected with something and is hiding it. what should i do to?
Feel self-conscious having sex with long-term partner?
He just sounds like a sex addict. He is prolly still a really great guy, it's just he is just more into sex than the average male.
I'm going insane over this... more insane than I already am?
I'll keep this short and sweet - I currently suffer from schizophrenia. I have paranoia, delusions, and hallucinations. My medication makes it a little easier to live with my condition, and it helps me organize my thoughts. I needed to write this question over about 4 times just to make sure it made sense. Anyways I am doing very well in school. I have a 4.3 overall hs GPA thanks to the support of my best friend and my parents. However I didn't realize until this year (I am a junior right now) that I am not liked by the other kids. I don't know why I'm not, maybe they are jealous of me? I'm kind of angry at them because you're not supposed to be jealous of a schizophrenic. They don't know about my mental state though. Recently, I was accepted into a lot of summer programs at top-ranked universities. I was overjoyed, and so was my family and close friends. I don't have a lot of friends. I have this modesty in which I don't want to show people my report cards because I don't want them to talk behind my back, because I know they do. I rarely tell people my grades, I only tell them what classes I take IF they ask. If they don't ask then I have no business or reason to tell them. I was accepted into a lot of AP classes next year but I dropped some of them because I don't think being under a lot of stress is good for me, and my mom agreed. There's this one student in my grade who is highly competitive. I am not very competitive to begin with, I just do whatever I can and do the best I can. Everyone knows he talks bout people behind their backs and he doesn't have much emotional intelligence. I shouldn't be talking about emotional intelligence, but you get my drift. He asked me all year about my grades and my classes and I told him. He asked me about my summer program acceptances and I told them about those too. However, I decided to drop most of my APs about 2 days ago after I took my last AP test this year. I also mixed up my SAT and SAT 2 dates this month (everyone knew I was taking reasoning in June and subject tests in May, but I mixed the dates up). I didn't realize until the day of because of the craziness of AP week and all of this pressure I was up to my neck in. Then he got kind of suspicious of me, maybe it's my paranoia, but I swear it isn't, this time I know what I'm saying. He's been spreading lies about me the entire year, saying how I'm lying about my grades, and he did digging in my files about my AP acceptances for senior year, and he didn't know I dropped some of them and saw I was not accepted into Calc, but I was, I just decided to drop that one along with a few others. He tells everyone I am not as intelligent as I act, and I don't act very intelligent at all. Sometimes I help people with math but that is only because they ask me for help, not to show off. I am always studying because it is hard for me to study normally like everyone else, it's easier to let real voices into my head rather than the ones from my auditory hallucinations, so I always study in front of everyone. Now everyone in my grade believes I am a liar and I don't know what to do. I've never been in this situation before. Please help me.
"A woman gangraped in a moving car in Delhi"--What about the rule of DEVIL imposed on us?
Boss What you say may be partly true. But if you search as "Gulf sex videos or Saudi arabia sex" you will find lots of porns. If you want to see the change, then "child marriage along with parent permission without allowing the girl to get pregnant" may be the best.When you restrict people more, they get more anxiety to do it.
Should I be scared be being rejected?
Ok. so I really like this guy and I want to date him. But he is kinda hard to try to figure out. I think he is flirting with me. But I can't tell. Should I ask if he likes me? But I really think the guy should do it. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!
Airsoft problem????????????????
Ok so i got a G&G RK-47 about 2 months ago and it is my first airsoft gun and now im having some problems. It only fires 4-5 bbs per 8-10 times i shoot it and the rest fall out of the barrel. I know when its not shooting because it makes a kind of suppressed noise . Any ideas?
Is it inappropriate to ask for a 2nd interview after being rejected in the 1st round?
I was interviewing for a school counseling job and I didn't make it into the 2nd round of interviews. I am really upset because I am an internal candidate and the principal, HR Staff, and the interview team knew me. Heck, I got recommendations from half the interview team. I still didn't make it to the 2nd round. I am so irate. I was thinking of asking for a 2nd interview. I was going to ask the H.R. manager, the head counselor at the school and the principal. Good idea? Worth a shot. Or will this hurt me getting a job as a school counselor in the school district in the future?
Probation Violation for Underage Drinking , Please Help!?
i imagine the terms of your probation were stay out of trouble, period. you didn't. hence the violation of probation charge you will be facing. even though the charges (motorcycle) were dropped, you still messed up. if i was the judge, i'd let you go, but i'm not. my best guess would be that you will face additional probation (1-2 years) and more community service hours (50-100.) can't imagine you'd get any jail time. a lot is going to depend on what you could have gotten instead of probation on your original charge. get yourself a lawyer and good luck.
How can I get my father to stop calling me a ****** and threatening to kick me out?
I'm 17 and basically my dad has hated me my whole life. He thinks that, first of all I'm a freak because I like being on my own and reading etc rather than playing sports, hanging out etc (He has on more than one occasion called me a loner) And he thinks I'm weird because I have schizophrenia & bipolar disorder (which I feel was triggered because of the way he treated me growing up and because of the many priests and camps he has sent me to to try and cure me of my 'homosexual tendencies' as they call it) These basically consisted of me being told that I was going to burn in hell if I didn't suppress everything that I was as well as an array of other colourful de-motivational techniques. Lately he and my mam have given up on trying to change me and he has taken to abusing the **** out of me instead, he screams random insults at me every 10 minutes, he tells me that even though I live under his roof I'm dead to him, he laughs at me telling me I'm worthless and an embarrassment to the family. Whenever anything goes wrong for me, instead of comforting me like any normal parent would do he tries his best to make me feel worse about myself. He basically does everything to make me feel like a big heap of ****. Is there anything I can do to get him to be even a little bit more understanding or even just get him to ignore me until I finish school? My mam just ignores me most of the time now so I can't ask her to help me.
Is my sense of humor immature for my age? (20 yrs old)?
i have a buddy he(trust me) acts 10x goofier then you......hes one of my best buds he will never let you stop laughing....get some new friends who enjoy you, just dont go over the top it can get a bit annoying when the time to be serious comes be serious, other then that act a fool
Woman: girls dit you ever reject the guy you liked?
Once I really liked a guy and I told him I just wanted to stay friends because he was a good friend of mine. I didn't want to lose him if we were to go out and something went wrong. So from me personally, that's one of the only reasons I turn guys down when I really like them.
GUYS what happened and how can i fix it?!?
Honestly, I would just play it cool. He now knows you like him and the ball is in his court. If he likes you back give him a few days and see if he talks to you or something. If he doesn't then just let it go and move on.
How do you get a girl out of your mind?
I asked out this girl i really liked, but she rejected me. I accepted it, but i still can't get her out of my mind. Any tips?
My boyfriend left for another country to vacation with a good female friend of his, should I be worried?
He has remained in contact with this friend of his whom he met in college, they have a lot in common, and the girl is currently studying/working in India. My bf has to go to Taiwan for a business meeting in three weeks, but without consulting with me first, he decided to fly into Thailand and vacation there with this girl for two weeks before going to Taiwan. His version of of the story was that his friend invited him to go to Thailand with her since she is already in India, which is very close to Thailand (a four hour flight to be exact). What bothers me is that neither of them has any work related business for traveling to Thailand, but they were still willing to spend five six hundred something dollars out of their own pockets to fly out of their respective countries just to meet up and vacation together. He said they will be sharing the same hotel, too (and most likely the same room since that will be cheaper for both, but I didn't ask about that part). When he told me of his plans with this girl, he had already been planning it for weeks, and had already made hotel reservations and bought the plane tickets. Although he tells me they are just friends, and that he has every right to have friends of the opposite sex, I still can't help but question his motives for wanting to vacation with a girl for two weeks without ever suggesting of inviting me along, especially considering the fact that he dated this girl back in college (she rejected him back then). Should I be upset with what he did and is this enough ground to break up with him?
In your own personal opinion, do you think more or less parents are spending time to raise their children?
Most parents think less of raising their children emotionally. They usually reward their child with objects or food, when it should be kisses and hugs. Most parents are selfish and they think that they'll have a life after having children. Once someone has a child, they will never have their life back. Now, this isn't necessarily a bad thing. They would merely devote their life to their child and if they deserve a child, they'll simply love them as much as a parent could and raise them well.
Is Confucianism dead in China?
Confucianism has been dying a slow death in China ever since CCP grabbed power in 1949. Initially Mao declared Confucianism a reviled cult that reeked of bourgeoisie mentality. Talking about Confucianism values were banned for a long time. Decades after Mao's death, the CCP despots reinvented Confucianism only to reinterpret Confucian principles to suit its own narrow agenda. The example of Confucian principle of harmony is the most evident example of this. Harmony in China has today come to mean suppression of free speech and imprisoning anyone who opposes the oppressive policies of CCP. Confucian principle of love, peace, harmony and humility is dead in China, only the name remains; and remains the convoluted representation of Confucian principles to suit the CCP ideology.
I have fallen for my dads best friend?
I have fallen for this guy. We have been completely honest with each other. He won't hang out with me because he doesn't want to be disloyal to my father. If it was just the two of us then everything would be fine. There is an 17 year age gap. He has recently told me that he will not come further into my life because he would feel that he was constantly doing something wrong. And that he felt inappropriate. I should be mad and resentful towards him at a time such as this. But I started falling in love with him, and he continues to talk to me. Making my feelings feel validated each day. Because he doesn't want us to stop talking. I know that it would cost the friendship between him and my dad. When he told me that he wasn't going to be able to see me, it was like my heart was put in a blender and left on ice crush. I know he feels the same about me, but why would he walk away if I made him happy. If I could put his mind at ease, and am only thing missing in his life. Why suppress the emotion. I just don't get it. I have never had somebody hurt me so bad and still continue to be nice to them, and still want them to come into my life, where we can be free with each other. Perhaps I am a fool. I talked to all of my friends and family, and nobody thought it was a big deal. I am 23 and have a right to my own privacy. And if we make each other happy, why can't we be together? Right now, we both have a perpetual heart ache because we are not in each others arms, and have lost each other. I cannot live like this, and I just want him to come into my life where I can cherish him.
I have an idea,maybe this will work?
Now is not the time to be modest. The doctors and nurses have seen it all but the gowns are open in the back. I can relate to what you are going through especially if you get lucky and have a cute nurse give you that shot. You could request for a male nurse.
I got rejected by a girl i really liked.....feel horrible now.....what should i do?
Well for one you should stay friends when her cause you never know she could come around and start to like you. Just give her the time she needs
I get a headache whenever i cry?
even if im not sobbing i start feeling pressure in my head. is it from trying to suppress the tears?
Will this possibly work?
haha ummm not sure it's worth a shot i guess, besides the nurse could just pull them up a bit and stick ya with the needle. so go for it.
Is my sense of humor immature for my age? (20 yrs old)?
no you're not immature it's obvious you have alot of haters (but hey don't we all?) haha,you don't need to worry about anything but your self, just be selfish and you would be so much better,besides you just like comedy :), I'm 19 going on 20 in 7 months haha
Why havent i been able to sleep at night ?
Jamila; The reason you cannot sleep can he one of many courses , Such as you are worried,Depressed, and insufficient exercise . IN the latest report from the U.K . it is saying that the majority of people who complain about their inability to sleep properly are worriers ,They are people who feel they carry a great burden or responsibility ,have great ambitions or perhaps are carrying a burden of guilt.One of the best ways to getting a good nights sleep is to get some exercise in the evening before going to bed just try and take a small walk around the block .if you can not get out of your house then work on a programn of exercises that you can do in your home.I did a course on this with Life line , People who suffer from depression often find it extremely difficult to sleep.because depression some times follows a personal crisis such as the feeling of failure,or continues after a physical illness such as the flu or jaundice.What ever you do do not let your doctor try and precribe putting you on {anti depressents} The best sleeping pill to be on is Mogadon this drug represses the activity of your Brainstem and also relieves anxieties by its effect on the hemispheres and makes sleep easier.Hope this will help you , but please check it out with your doctor. Peace to you
Do you think I owe my father something?
So the thing is, I know his name and where he lives (long story) but I've never met him. He isn't even aware of my existence. My mom got pregnant in high school and never told him. I just found out about him about 5 years ago. Me and my mom had a lot of issues after this all came out, so my life consisted of basically fighting with her all the time, but now that our relationship is moving in the right direction she's saying maybe it would be a good idea to just meet him. I really don't want to. I'm scared of being rejected. Actually, terrified of being rejected by him. I was talking to my fiancee the other day and she thinks I should at least contact him. She said "Don't you think you owe him that much?" That kind of made me mad. I mean, I owe him? I told her "He's a total stranger, how do I owe him?" and we went back and forth for awhile but I digress. I'm very content with just living my life not ever knowing him, but I don't know if that would be the right choice. Do I owe him something?
If I am "proud of my modesty" is that a paradox or an oxymoron?
it is an oxymoron. a paradox is defined as two words put together meaning opposites. that line is long enough to be a saying or phrase; making it an oxymoron =D
Chivalry/Modesty is dead -___-?
Agreed, and moreover I observed this behaviour to be common in parts like America, France and some parts of Europe and Canada, its really sad because they are great countries but true. Its become to the point that it has be a acceptable behaviour in society when its really not. If you want someone decent you're going to have to get out of your comfort zone and find her. I would suggest stop going to night clubs and start talking to girls in supermarkets, libraries, in parks, go over your classmate list and see whether you can catch up with one of your friend girls. I mean it still doesn't solve the problem but your chances to find someone decent will be higher.
Should i give him a head...?
I have this guyfriend ive known forever! He use to like me and tried me but i rejected. Now its three or four years later and hes sorta a drunk *** not mean but just into drugs and out of grades? He flirts with me and i sorta like him. Im not sure why but i really love his personality! Hes DEF not cute though. Hes ****** a phew girls in the school and gotten one blow. I really want to make s name for myself and give him head and then chances are him and his guyfriends will probly like me. By the way hes fairly popular. And also im gonna be a freshman and the way our city works is you cool if you do drugs. your freakin great if you have gone out with a shitload of guys and you makeout with whoever.. But your a f u c k i n beast if you give someone a head or **** them. Should i? I know its wrong but i dont care!! Think as if you were me.. Thanks u guys:)
Why do asian people tend to stay to people in their own culture ?
i'm just curious, is it because they feel rejected by the americans? or becase any other reason? i think it is literally time for everyone to start getting along! despite our culture differences! the only time i usually see asains is when i used to get my nails done, or my clothes tailored or went to eat chinese, or japanese///now my husbaned is mexican and my best friends are black, and indian so i want to get to know more people!!!
Wear a short sleeve shirt with a tichel?
Hi, I am a Christian new to head covering and I was wondering if it was acceptable to wear short sleeve t-shirts? And what about skirts/shorts that were of appropriate length? Please help! I am really concerned with my modesty!
Monday, July 18, 2011
What do you think about this?
The hospital will probably NOT ask you to remove your underwear. For an injection, you just have to pull them down a bit. Don't worry about it. But why do you keep asking this question over and over??
Was the bible written by primitive men?
I kinda think that Jews would not look favorable on being called primitive. Then again, the Jews that don't truly believe in Him probably wouldn't care one way or the other.
Don't you agree with the Pope that people should go nude if their hearts are pure, forgetting biased inter-?
There is nothing dirty or ugly about the human form. It is a work of art and the great masters of the world have worked for centuries to capture it's beauty.
Does this girl want me to talk to her?
Im a guy and i sat beside a girl in class and i added her to facebook and then we had a facebook convo and i said she was not worthy to be on my list and deleted her. Then after i deleted her i sent another request the next day and i also sent some msgs like yoo $lut, go make me a sandwich kthxx :) and hi ugly :) and i said i was sorry for being mean and she said to stop sending her messages or she was gona report me. Then i called her babe and told her to add me again and she replied babe? I donr think so. So it stopped but i kept looking at her profile and it kept saying friend request sent so she didnt reject it. Then i canceled the request and readded her nd she accepts it this time. Why did she no to adding me then added me?
What kind of clothing should an 18 year old female pack for a trip to Guatemala?
Nowadays in Guatemala, many of the girls dress very American. As far as blending in, I admire your desire, but that�s hard to do in a few days. Note: Christian girls mostly stick to skirts, so if you are a Christian that may matter to you. Otherwise, you can wear what you want. Most young guatemalan girls don�t dress modestly, but you will attract less attention if you have more on rather than less. I live here, so let me know what time of year and what area of Guatemala; and i can advise as far as temperature.
Has anyone used Pentoxifylline for chronic inflammation?
My doctor who treats me for Fibromyalgia ordered up blood tests for me...He said that my inflammation levels were still high. I was taking LD Natrexone (LDN) but had to stop because of surgery and post surgery pain killers being used....I am now back on LDN for about 3 weeks...Mood is better on this...However pain is only slightly better...My Dr. said that the LDN should have helped my inflammation but isn't...Now he wants me to take this Pentox...I have concerns because it can suppress the immune system (as I understand from my searches on the internet)...Has anyone had success with their inflammation on Pentox...I would be at 400mg once a day...Would this affect my leg circulation at this dosage ( I may have PAD as I get very tired when walking and have leg cramps)...Thank you for your help and answers...Gadget
PLEASE ANSWER!! I can't get rid of my feelings for her regardless of what she did?
i know this really sucks but to answer ur first ques, she will never give u a chance. Shell be ur friend again but not if u keep bringing up dating. its really cold but its true. i can just tell youll always be in the friend zone wit her. If u want to forget her just remember, there are 4billion + girls in the world and ur only 18 u got ur wholeee life ahead of you dude. There so many more girls ur gunna meet. Just think about how many cute girls u see when u go to an amusment park. every time u go theres another girl. This girl isnt worth it cuz theres a better one out there thats actually going to like you back. If u want her back as a friend, just tell her " i understand you only view me as a friend and I respect that. As much as i like you i do still want to be friend with you and i wont let my feelings get in the way"
I have an idea,will it possibly work?
Erm, no, it wont work. She's shooting you in the bum, and the last time I checked, undies covered that. Nurses have seen it all before, and I mean EVERYTHING. There's nothing to be modest or embarrassed about, you'll be fine.
Explain to me why it is that when a certain morning radio show host will advertise the sleep number bed and?
tell us what number he selects, but will say that he can not tell you what number his wife chooses? Is she just such a special person that is far above the common everyday woman that it would insult her modesty to reveal her comfort selection? This kind of reminds me of the story about the princess that was so sensitive that she could feel the pea that was placed below 8 or 9 mattresses.
Do u like modesty or honesty ?
i think i prefer honesty, but not honesty for it's own sake. i think people should be themselves and that requires being honest.
Why does everyone here have a bad attitude?
People are rude that's life online or in the real world.At least online you don't know the people so it shouldn't bother you its not like its coming from your friends.Remember that saying from when you where a kid "sticks and stones may break my bones but your words will never hurt me" its a good thing to live by don't let other people bring you down or drop down to their level its not worth your time.
Why do i think about this girl all the time 24/7, is this normal?
It's totally normal to feel this way. If you got rejected theres almost no way to forget right away. Maybe to try and forget by unfriending her on Facebook(ok thats kinda harsh so nevermind) but if she's on ignore her I guess. Poems can help but sometimes they make you feel worse. I would start by not doing things that rimind you of her. That all I have but please dont worry it'll get better
Why can’t I establish or maintain decent friendships?
I am twenty years old, and I am almost a senior in college. I essentially have no friends whatsoever. I only managed to procure a minuscule amount of friends in high school, but only one of them still occasionally converses with me. However, it is a chore for me to tolerate her because she has no job, no education, no ambitions, etc. All she does is leech off the welfare system and hardworking citizens and smoke marijuana or drink alcoholic beverages all day. The rest of my previous friends from high school are pregnant, already have reproduced, or are in jail and or awaiting arrest. Throughout my years in college, I attempted to establish friendships, but no potential friends corresponded to my expectations. Elaborating on the aforementioned statement, all the potential friends I meet disgust me to the point where they become intolerable, as they are merely concerned with drinking, partying, and sexual escapades. I attempted to compromise with my expectations, and I attended several inane college parties, which I still fail to comprehend the point of. Through extensive research and observation of the typical behavior of my peers, I discovered that my apathetic attitude toward alcohol and my virginity/modesty are social hindrances because they are apparently not considered “cool”, as they are postulated as snobbishness instead. Is there any manner in which to procure friends who are not losers without compromising my values or should I prepare for a life of solitude? I do not intend to sound sardonic or acerbic, but I am frustrated that I cannot procure at least one decent friend.
Do you think I owe my father something?
So the thing is, I know his name and where he lives (long story) but I've never met him. He isn't even aware of my existence. My mom got pregnant in high school and never told him. I just found out about him about 5 years ago. Me and my mom had a lot of issues after this all came out, so my life consisted of basically fighting with her all the time, but now that our relationship is moving in the right direction she's saying maybe it would be a good idea to just meet him. I really don't want to. I'm scared of being rejected. Actually, terrified of being rejected by him. I was talking to my fiancee the other day and she thinks I should at least contact him. She said "Don't you think you owe him that much?" That kind of made me mad. I mean, I owe him? I told her "He's a total stranger, how do I owe him?" and we went back and forth for awhile but I digress. I'm very content with just living my life not ever knowing him, but I don't know if that would be the right choice. Do I owe him something?
Will this work,what do you think?
you will have to take it off but they wont take it off completely they will just bend like 5/100 of your brief to give you an injection
Usage of Xbox Live in China?
Hi I live in Britain and consequently have a british Xbox Live account. a couple of times a year I have to go to China for a couple of months because my dad is working on contract there. The last couple of times I went to China I took my PS3 but was unable to connect to PSN (I can't remember the exact error) I know it wasn't the wifi because it worked fine for playing minecraft online and I could go back on PSN when I came back home. I am going back to china for a rather long time on wednesday and I'm not sure if I will be able to suppress my boredom for long without online game-play, so I'm wondering if I would be able to use Xbox Live while in China? Also I don't think that PSN is banned in China so can anyone tell me what I may be doing wrong, or what I can do to get it working?
Am I in love, but I dont want it to be?
She hates me, I hate her, but my mood changes from hate to love everyday, one moment I wanna strangle her with her own hair, the other I dont wanna keep her away from me, I've written songs in how much I hate and love her, I asked her out but she rejected me, since then I've hated her, and shes hated me, but goddamn shes gorgeous as f-ck, I've never seen a girl more beautiful than her, shes perfect. But the next day, I hate her with a fiery rage that cant stop and we dont talk so I just abuse her whenever her topic comes up in my friends (shes not there when I do), but I just cant stop thinking about her, weather I hate her or like her, shes the only thing on my mind. That f-ckin beautiful b-tch. My friends keep on telling me I'm in love and I say "f-ck no, I'd rather f-ck a stray dog with rabies without a condom on" (LOL line, I know) but now I feel that they may be right. But she hates me, and many days I hate her, but when I like her, I feel like a hollow piece of wood, and when I hate her, I wanna beat her up with a hollow piece of wood. Is this love or am I just crazy? I dont want it to be love, its gonna be terrible for me, be honest, if I stay confused its gonna be worse.
Sex: Why can't I make up my mind?!?
The first time I had sex was with my first bf and first love, things ended badly and I was depressed for over year and didn't have sex for over a year, until last night. I had sex with a guy I've been hanging out with, he cooks for me, takes me to fun places, always opens the car door, he's such a good friend to me and I love his personality, but I don' think I want to date him because he has kids (which he is really, really good to). The sex was good, and I don't feel like I did anything wrong, but I can't decide if sex before marriage is wrong. Growing up I wanted to wait, but both times I did it it was because I felt comfortable and safe, so how can that be wrong? I'm 22, and I don't want a serious relationship right now, and yes I tried masturbating for over a year but after the first couple of months I felt depressed because I was horny and suppressing my urges and a vibrator just wasn't cutting it, and I really did want to wait to be in a more serious relationship but I just couldn't take the wait anymore. So I guess I'm just trying to see what everyone's thoughts and opinions are on the subject. I personally don't think sex before marriage is wrong, but because of the way I grew up part of me can't let go of thinking it is.
Do most girls these days only wear hijab for a fashion statement?
It seems like all the tutorials on youtube are to teach girls on how to wear them in ways that grab attention and are "cute" and all.. what happend to the modesty part?
Can the state remove statements & 911 calls from a case ?
Witness made statement against my son.along with 5-911calls sayn ,he the gunman is here !!!! The witnesses son directed police to a gun.3 of my children & myself were taken to the station.Thereafter afraid for my children I said the gun was mine in an agreement to have charges dropped against my children . The state removed all the critical evidence all except the statement I had given. No gun powder test was taken .can my attorney file a motion to suppress evidence & squash arrest.
Why do I have mostly older guys hitting on me?
I swear ever since I like hit puberty I've had way older guys hitting on me. I'm 16 now and I have guys from the age of 18 to like 35 approaching me. I honestly cannot remember the last time a guy my age approached me. &People always seem to be 2-3 years off of my actual age but I don't think I look THAT much older. I have no idea what is attracting them to me... I'm only 5'5", I weigh 123 lbs, I'm a 34C and I have a slim figure with "african curves", people often tell me I have "the perfect body shape" but I often deny it out of modesty, is this why? Cause of my body shape?
How do we become more than friends? (Need advice!)?
Ok, sorry this is a long one but I need advice! I'm 16, and there's this guy I know who I see every Friday at my local Youth Club since I joined in September. I really like him as more than a friend, and have a feeling he might like me too but I don't know what to do about it!! He's really shy (as am I) so I don't know if he would ask me out if he liked me, but if I ask him out (which I couldn't imagine doing!) I risk being rejected and it would be so awkward every week! He has been nothing but really friendly and nice to me so far though, nothing more. I'm so confused :/ Any advice would be really appreciated :D xxx
Do I have a type of Bipolar Disorder? Or something else?
Well obviously your first move should be to get to a psychiatris to get diagnosed so you can get medication for it. If you've got family history of it, then it's pretty likely that you've got it. And unless there's history of other mental health issues in your family, then if anything it's going to be Bipolar. Hope things go well for you! xx
Is my body plotting against me?
It annoys the hell out of me. Whenever I see an attractive male or female, my penis shoots straight and it ALWAYS leaves me in an awkward position. God forbid, if an attractive person flashes on the screen while I'm watching T.V. with my family and my dick goes to attention like a brainwashed marine. There have been many uneasy discussions throughout my family regarding my rebellious libido, which miraculously decides to stop working whenever I'm about to get some. Every sexual experience I have ever had has ended with me apologizing, and my partner saying 'its ok' while trying to suppress a laugh.Please Help, what am I to do???
Where do they sell Victorian Era clothing. I'm into the gothic victorian.?
I would try the Victorian Trading Co catalog or website. I haven't shopped with them for a little while, but they used to have some cute clothing.
Why did he seem to like the idea that I don't have much confidence?
He's messing with your head. Ignore him, and start being a little more firm in your "NO you cannot come over' stance.
Is it normal to feel like this?
I'm a guy and 24. I'm really shy and don't really approach women. I feel like no women would wan't me because I'm not attractive, I'm really skinny (tired to gain weight and work out but I can't seem to put on any muscle), and I'm super shy. And I kinda stopped trying after being rejected a couple of times in the past 4 years because I don't want to put women in a weird situation by asking them out since no one thinks of me in that way, only as a friend. Also its not fair for them to put up with someone like me when there are plenty of other nice guys who are confident and good looking. Is it normal to feel like this? Do shy guys find someone to spend their lives with?
How do i make a move and give her signs i like her?
she likes me and i know it because she tells me that im sweet and im her closest (guy) friend and she told me that my x girlfriend was lucky to have me. but i just cant get my self to show her i like her too, she has a boyfriend but she tells me she's not happy with him.i want to kinda tell her i like her without making it obvious that im clearly interested and not being rejected.... what do i do?? help please :(
What's worse: bragging or false modesty?
Example of how false modesty backfires: you take a test, someone says "that was sooo hard" and asks how you did on it and you reply "ehh not so well" so you dont make them feel bad, and then you get the test back and ace it and then feel like the biggest jerk ever. Wouldn't bragging and say you did well on it be better?
Does this mean i am...........?
if everyone says your "cute" that means ur not ugly so dnt worry bout if ur tooo pretty.:)
How does one deal with their child being the best?
I would say, learn to see the inherent worth and value in all children. Find something good to say about each other parent's child, and there will be far less of them being jealous or petty. Also try to volunteer a lot and help with school events. Your reputation will be based on how much you give, not on how smart, talented, or handsome your child is.
Obssession with wolves + fox - HELP!?
Ive been spending my last 16 hours watching films with foxes or wolves in them(its like this every day). If I don't see any wolf or fox I feel like I have an empty void. I don't want to hate foxes or wolves for the rest of my life, I just don't want it to be distracting. Any way to suppress this weird need?
What do you think dressing modesty is?
My 10 year old nephew asked me what is dressing modesty and i do not know what to tell him so he understands. so here is my question to all of you. What is dressing modesty and What do you consider "modest"? What are some things you would consider modest and what are some things you would not consider modest. Be specific please.
Sunday, July 17, 2011
Is it inappropriate to ask for a 2nd interview after being rejected in the 1st round?
I was interviewing for a school counseling job and I didn't make it into the 2nd round of interviews. I am really upset because I am an internal candidate and the principal, HR Staff, and the interview team knew me. Heck, I got recommendations from half the interview team. I still didn't make it to the 2nd round. I am so irate. I was thinking of asking for a 2nd interview. I was going to ask the H.R. manager, the head counselor at the school and the principal. Good idea? Worth a shot. Or will this hurt me getting a job as a school counselor in the school district in the future?
Is there a secret Police State operating within the Yahoo Answers Community?
Your answer is probably not answering the question actually posed. If you want to know the reason for the violation, post "Why was this question (answer) a violation?" and add the original e-mail you got so the users can see the exact context. The experienced users here will explain it to you.
Does my ex want me back? Does she still like me?
Believe what she has told you. She only wants you as a best friend. But since you say you don't want that position, then you need to let her know this so you both can move on with your lifes.
Does the emptiness ever go away?
I've had that feeling for years. I describe it as 'dead' and sometimes I even start to figure I feel so dead why not just BE dead... I suggest getting a counselor and possibly going on meds. Meds should not be done without counseling and often counseling helps without the meds becoming involved.
Is it normal to feel like this?
I'm a guy and 24. I'm really shy and don't really approach women. I feel like no women would wan't me because I'm not attractive, I'm really skinny (tired to gain weight and work out but I can't seem to put on any muscle), and I'm super shy. And I kinda stopped trying after being rejected a couple of times in the past 4 years because I don't want to put women in a weird situation by asking them out since no one thinks of me in that way, only as a friend. Also its not fair for them to put up with someone like me when there are plenty of other nice guys who are confident and good looking. Is it normal to feel like this? Do shy guys find someone to spend their lives with?
Is Jeremiah wrong when he says to talk about your religious faith?
Didn't Jesus say to practice your piety and righteousness in secret? I know extremely religious Jews and Christians who never talk about their religious faith with anyone other than telling people they belong to that particular religion or faith... I think one of the 12 stones of Israel is modesty, not bragging about your achievements and not asking for recognition for every little thing good thing that you do...
Girls: would you always reject a guy who asked you out but had never seen you before?
Long story short, I need a gf, and wanted to ask out a girl in public, but from what I've read I'll come off as a creep. How can I get a random girl to at least get a coffee?
IF! the democrats & Obama dislike the Bush admistration soooo much: y did they brought Timothy Geither along?
Not to mention keeping on Defense Secretary Gates. The fact is, Democrats are all about compromise. Republicans are all about 'my way or the highway'.
R&P: How important are headphones to you?
i listen to my music at full volume, so quality doesnt really matter to me, but i go through them really fast so durability and price are really all i care about
Isn't Microsoft outlook really bad at calendar management?
No. Not at all. I suggest you try Outlook 2007, Outlook 2010 or Office 365 depending upon your requirements. All the issues with the calendar has been resolved perfectly.
All the men out here are yucky. What am I going to do?
Wait until you move to NYC. Then you won't have to worry about long distance relationship or not moving because he doesn't want to.
I got rejected by a girl i really liked.....feel horrible now.....what should i do?
Turn on some music and dance around to brighten the mood, or hangout with friends and meet some new people! :) next time, have a friend ask her If she likes you first, so that you can be sure . I hope this helps!
Do girls like guys with super big egos?
I have an extremely big ego. For example, I know I am really smart and a really good athlete and if you ask me I will tell you that I'm really good (no modesty. I will just tell you that I'm the best). I don't really brag, but I have before and no doubt will in the future. Is this a major turn-off?
Maybe religion suppressed knowledge to ensure we didnt destroy ourselves?
we use all manner of inventive and destructive things for all sorts of reasons from increasing the quality of life to waging war. maybe this was the purpose of religion. to ensure we were just ignorant enough to survive.. let me know what you think.
PLEASE ANSWER!! I can't get rid of my feelings for her regardless of what she did.?
She is not worth it. go to the gym or go running usually when you keep busy doing other things you have less time to think. if shes not going to give you a chance now she probably wont EVER give you a chance. You sound like a nice dude there is someone better out there for you, you just dont know it yet. Plus if she cant accept that you have feelings for her and atleast still be your friend then shes not really a friend. sorry you have to go through this.
Where can I purchase a Bekishe and a Rekel (Jewish coats for daily wear and Sabbath) in Washington?
I need the jackets because I'm converting to Hasidism and need to conform to the Lubavitcher-Chabad standards of dress and modesty.
What do i do about this boy?
i have a friend who is a boy (i am a boy and gay) that i really like. we've been friends for about two years and last year i told him that i liked him. he's my closest guy friend and we talk pretty much everyday. he has stated multiple times that he is 100% straight and that he doesn't have feelings for me the way i do for him. yet he tells me that he loves me all of the time. im not looking to convert him or to make him like me but i'm looking for a way to be his friend and not have such strong feelings for him. he is a really good friend and i want to continue to be friends but it is quite hard with all of my feelings that i have for him. we have decided to stop talking for a certain amount of time in the past to help me to overcome my feelings for him and to try to suppress my feelings for him but it has not worked. what do i do?
How can anyone support the death penalty,?
You've just come up with two uselessly vague arguments that even imply nobody should be convicted of any crimes at all, that nobody should be punished at all. 1) "Law enforcement can be corrupted and/or incompetent," and 2) "Many people are wrongfully convicted for crimes they didn't commit." Neither one of those two statements have anything to do with why it is okay to convict a person and sentence them to life in prison without the possibility of parole but not to execute them. Indeed, even when a person's conviction means no jail time at all but merely some kind of fine, both of the conditions which you described might be applicable. Or might not be.
Any ideas for this 2 page paper? This is a rough draft...?
Sounds REALLY good! How old are you? I think your teacher will be pleased :) I can't think of anything for you to improve on, so that's good.
Can Nieces and Nephews see you nude?
This may seem perverted but its a very honest question 4 me. My Husbands, sisters kids are coming over to stay with us. I have been to their house and they have absoulutly no modesty. Me and my husband; however, do walk around our house nude after showering or bathing... or something. Though we don't need to do that at all and we could stop there might be times we r forced to. An example is when I hear my little 1 mnth yr old crying. The other day I was in the bathroom changing, heard him cry, and made a dash, nude and all. I'm just wondering if I should take every precaution against them seeing me, or if Its ok just to keep my normal habits?
Why are White Males screwed over in America?
There are laws protecting different races, there are laws protecting Women but there is no law protecting white males? Why does my generation have to pay for the mistakes that were made by my ancestors? Also, there is a public school down the street that is only open for African Americas... but if there was one for any other race that would be unlawful. There are laws trying to get passed to make test like S.A.T.s easier for women and the same for test being a Doctor or firefighter. I don't know but do you want someone who is not qualified to be a Doctor or firefighter. Why is our government become unfair? I know they have been suppressed for a long time but we got passed that we came to our senses. Why am I paying for it?
What are some sad songs?
im looking for songs about being depressed and losing hope in yourself. kinda like the song broken by lifehouse. and it ends tonight by the all american rejects.
Scorpio girls: Do you feel like it's way too risky to open your heart and to be open with a Capricorn male?
You know you just might have described me perfectly to how I handle relationships. I do weigh the options and if it doesn't fit then I'm gone and if it even seems like it wouldn't work out for me then I'm gone. No goodbye, no I'll ttyl. I'll just go..simple as that. I really dont know why I do this, but I feel like an explaination would not change a thing. So I take the easy way out. Especially when it came to long distance, all I wanted to do was the see the girl but she would make the same excuse and I wa very patient with her. Eventually I wised up and just stopped talking to her and she didn't deserve a reason as to why. Long distance is meaningless and you should never date like that EVER.
Why this RUND MUSAND culture of living separate/divorced or teens away from parents?
Because they all rund masund are pre-occupied with the thought of sex all the times. Though animals live naked but they think of sex only one or two seasons in a year. These people live worst than animals.
I dont know what he thinks of me..... help!?
ok so he is 16 and im a few years younger (i am only one grade below him) we text often but he usually replies "ok". i told him it bothers me and to stop doing it so he stopped for a little while. he has sent me a few pictures and i sent some back (dont worry they were decent). the other day i made the mistake of asking him what he looks for in a girl and he was very vague, so i asked him if he would reject or date me and he said date. afterwards i told him how old i was and he replied "oh" and then mentioned this other girl (he is 10x pretttier than me and his same age). idk if he still thinks im his friend or not, help! (and help me find out how i can keep him my friend cuz i really do care about him wheter he likes me or not.)
Saturday, July 16, 2011
What do you think of my potential next tattoo?
I think the first picture will look good on your ankle. Stick with the peacock feather. Tattoo is an art so I think, giving meanings or symbols to it won't matter as long as the tattoo itself makes you satisfied and happy. :))
Girls - Would you wear swimsuits with or without optional leggings?
Im sorry to say but i would not wear that swim wear it is to hot for that in the summer and i like to show my legs if because i work out really hard but i thin allot of muslims would wear that.
Styles like Gothic Lolita?
I LOVE the Gothic/Punk Lolita styles...but I want something less...modest...I know the Lolita style is basically modesty...but...I dunno. I really like the style...but I was wondering if there were any styles similar to it? Or...maybe less...Lolita-y. Haha. I like the style...but its a bit much for me. I want a kind of 'watered down' version, if there is one?
Do you have an affection for yahoo answers and ever worry the site will radically change?
I don't have an affection for a site that censors the questions and answers of Conservative members. Yahoo won't let me post a questions regarding the new EPA regulations on carbon emissions. You can look it up on your own if you like but I'll include an interesting link below. These new regulations will be devastating to our already fragile economy. It will coast the coal industry hundreds of billions of dollars, make our electricity rates skyrocket and put tens of thousand of Americans from coal producing states out of work. All I want to ask is, WHY ARE YOU LETTING THIS HAPPEN, PRESIDENT OBAMA?
How do I tell a girl that I really like her?
There is a girl in school that I really like but i Think that if I ask het out she'll reject me. One of my friends thinks she likes me but he does say things like this even if he doesn't know a thing
Finally going to ask someone out after years, and I don't know the first thing I'm going to do!?
when you wanna sit with her be like, hey :) hows it going. or hey we needa catch up how about we hang one day and talk :) i usually write more but im tired XD lol but you can say those things and dont be negative be happy and have a hell of a personality. i dated a guy that isnt the best looking dude but i freaking love him because he has the best personality and he is soo freaking funny XD my bf ! lol so if yuo want just be friendly and i wish u the luck!!! :)
Girl question male 14?
How to tell a girl that i like her without everybody knowing? I am afraid that she is gonoing to tell evertbody if she rejects and im going to be bullied every day. please help!
How to hint that I like him via messaging?
Honestly the best way to make a guy feel liked is to just give him attention. Talk a lot, compliment him, joke with him, etc. If he has to go joke that you'll miss him... little things like that will get the point across loud and clear.
Why this RUND MUSAND culture of living separate/divorced or teens away from parents?
this culture suggests that people have the right to do as they please, instead of having their every moment dictated by dirty old men who call themselves religious leaders and a book that has more violence than many wars. at least, we don't stone women because the husband wants to to divorce her and abandon his family for a new, younger model. and we don't kill our daughters for some perceived slight. Until islam gets its act together, and starts letting people live how they want, don't tell the rest of the world how to live
My crush is going,now what?
About a group of 10 friends-including me and my crush,which rejected me are going to a zoo. I really don't want to talk to him as it has only been a couple of days since he rejected me-I'm still in heartbreak and I'm thinking I might cry if he says something about the rejection,any suggestions on what I can do,to get over this heartbreak?? and stay away from him?
Muslim parents won't even let me associate with guys?
So my life pretty much sucks. My family are super strict muslims, however I feel like religion just isn't for me. I respect Islam and other religions as a guide for life but I just want to live my life without petty restrictions. I'm 16 and my parents won't even let me associate with guys won't let me hang out with them, text/call them, flirt, and dating is out of the question. My mom recently stole my phone saw that I harmlessly flirt with guys and she took away everything made me delete my fb, took away my phone, my tv, and all my fabric for making clothes and my car. So basically I go behind my parents back they find out punish me then my life sucks. I want to live for me now and not for what/who they want me to be. So basically my question is how can i get my freedom? I know for a fact that sitting down and talking to them won't work because I've tried it before. I'm 16 by the way. Only 2 more years till college and I know if I'm suppressed any longer I'll just end up going crazy in college. Thanks for the help!
What do you think modesty is?
My 10 year old nephew ask me what is modesty and i do not know what to tell him so he understands. so here is my question to all of you. What is modesty and What do you consider "modest"? What are some things you would consider modest and what are some things you would not consider modest. Be specific please.
Are college students, military personnel, low-income and minorities not considered Americans to the GOP?
Cons only consider the wealthy elite to be real Americans. Everyone else to them are just lazy leeches that want trivial things like healthcare.
Need some answers to this?
He sounds very childish and no i think he just wants a booty call, sorry to be the bearer of bad news :(
What do Christian guys think about women who reveal to much?
I often ask myself why they want to show every bum on the street their boobs and butts and legs. I wonder if they're naive about what men think and want and look at, or if they're really sluts and want every man in the world to think about banging them. I wouldn't approach a sluttish woman with a 10-foot pole.
Do you get mad when someone said that you are short?
ok like this my husband's sisterinlaw doesn't see, to like me because every time when she saw me and she got friend with her she start to open her mouth and said look at her she sooo short, look she so short tiny. I look at her and act like I doesn't care. You know why she do that to me because she is my hubby mom side of cousin that use to like him when I was dating him but he rejected her and I guess she is still jealous of me. She got married to his younger brother. Yeah I am short but I don't care of what she said. what do you do if you were in that situation?
Ramadan, what can make a woman particularly be sinful in God's eyes?
If your intentions are good than i think it should be ok. But i'm not sure. May Allah (swt) forgive all our sins.
Why are boys and girls allowed to swim in the same pool?
at my daughters school next year,(9th grade) in PE there will be a swim unit and boys and girls have it together? Why is this allowed? Wouldn't this make girls feel uncomfortable. Wouldn't boys use this opportunity to harass or humilate girls? Also, why are boys allowed to be shirtless in the presence of girls? Why is no sense of modesty maintained
Why are boys allowed to be shirtless in the presence of girls at a swimming pool?
why is this allowed? Wouldn't this make girls feel uncomfortable? Why is no sense of modesty and decency maintained?
Ladies, female friend opinion?
I'd really like to know if you think my female friend might have feelings for me. We've worked together for 2 years now. We're really close and she trusts me quite a bit. As a background she has told me that in general she is a shy person. We usually have boundaries up since we're "friends" and both are in relationships but I've noticed that she's touched me on the arm when i make her laugh or I got slapped recently (in front of others) for teasing her. This is only when I catch her off guard with a joke or teasing cause she is usually reserved and composed. But at other times she seems distant so I can't figure it out. She has called me a really good guy friend before, but then the other day when I returned from vacation she sent an email saying the "office" missed me (i don't have any other friends in the office) as well as the girls at the coffee shop we frequent twice a day. So does anyone think she might have suppressed feelings or is being friendly?
Other Good Rock bands?
anyone know of any other good rock bands like the used, sum41, all american rejects, billy tallet...etc
How do i tell my parents i dont want to be mormon anymore?
Just tell them how you feel about being a Mormon. They can't force you to do anything. Tell them you don't agree with some of the things Mormons believe in and that you don't want to be Mormon anymore.
Re- Post what should happen next in my novel ( quick synopsis)?
I think you should talk to a guy who's close to you as well, obviously someone you trust to actually help you. I once wrote a short story from a male viewpoint and I asked my cousin to give me some advice. It really helped, at least in my case.
Friday, July 15, 2011
Is this an ok beginning to my first chapter?
The plot seems very cliche. There's almost no explanation whatsoever at the beginning. You use too many adverbs, have lots of grammar mistakes and your sentences seem choppy. Not very good, sorry.
What is the name of the anime?
when there is a girl who falls from the sky and she has this weird mark on her .. when she falls from the sky she lands on some guy... and at one point she gets naked and covers herself up and says i am protecting my modesty
What's wrong with Justin Beiber?
I'm not talking about his shitty music. A lot of people have shitty music and he isn't any worse than other terrible music. I really just don't understand how he is supposed to be like 17 and looks like he doesn't have one pubic hair. He doesn't seem nearly as developed as a healthy teenage boy should be. Does anyone else think he may not be as old as people say he is in order to appeal more to tweens? Or maybe he is being fed growth suppressing medicines so he can ride the tween train longer. I will accept even the most ridiculous theories.
Suspect that I have BPD...?
You should consult a psychiatrist; you may be narcissistic as well as being aspergers or some other personality disorder other than BPD. If your doctor is "baffled" get another better experienced doctor.
How can have fun and jet leave the option open for a relationship?
Dont worry too much,you have to play the field and when you meet the one you,ll know.Tends to be when you least expect it so till then relax Max.Take care and good luck
When do you start letting others know to back off from your husband without losing your pride and self worth?
we have been married for 12 years and never had issues about affairs,modesty aside we have both shared confidences about how others have expressed their attraction for us and these people are aware that we are married,however he went out of the country to attend his class reunion and told me how he got so drunk one night and this one girl and him started kissing in front of his schoolmates, i was livid but he did promise to stay away from heavy drinking unless i was physically present with him,i "trapped" the girl who did it by pretending to be him on his facebook because he said he passed out and since there were missing links to his story i had to find out for myself and sure enough i did i never swore at the girl i was cool enough to let her know at the end of the chat that it was not my hubby but it was the wife talking to her on facebook don't know if i scared her off or embarrassed her because in that instant she deleted her name from my husband's facebook i have always trusted my husband until this started to happen if he stays with me it's because he wants to and not because i'm constantly guarding him so where do i draw the line?
Is it true that if you wanna sell stuff on ebay...?
Then you must provide your detailed personal information, including your driver license, ID number, SSN, street address and best sniping point to take you out by one shot with a small caliber non-suppressed rifle?
Need sum advice on my diet whilst weight training 4 times a week?
Check to make sure that your protein shakes are actually really good for you, because a lot of the time they aren't. I always recommend not skimping on how much food your body needs, but it sounds as though some of your serving sizes are kinda large. Try to only drink water, because it definitely sounds like you have enough protein. Have more vegetables as your snacks. If you have cravings for food, and you're actually hungry, then eat a little, but if you aren't hungry, just have some water. Or celery. It has negative calories, so it's kinda like eating nothing.
Any Complaints About the United States of America?
U.S. Government has a very sad history of abuse against Americans. The people who founded the U.S. were evil in their endeavors of slavery, murder of the native peoples, suppression of women's rights, greed for ill gotten gain, etc... The United States is still to this day suppressing Americans. If you look at this United States for what it really stands on, it's foundation is bondage of the American people. I hope U.S. goes bankrupt and frees America from taxes, bondage, suppression, confusion, warmongering, evil abuse. What are your complaints?
In love with a mostly straight girl in a Catholic girls boarding school, and she has a boyfriend. HELP?
Wow your questions were so emotionally intense to the point of me wanting to give you a longwinded answer. Ha ha apologize in advance because this will be a very long one... I truly feel bad for you and I don't even know you. Ha guess because I felt the same way about a few str8 guy crushes in the my past. Unfortunately from my understanding (well reading) you must try your best to keep it moving.. Honestly that chick is using you for her temporary comforts and that ain't right at all. As much as you care for her it isn't fair for you to have too deal with Bf competition. Even if she hooked up with you and dropped him what happens when she spots someone else?. (hmm) Do you believe that she would stick with you or add another to the equation?. You shouldnt have to even fight for her love ooh-hell naw!. She really should naturally want be by your side.. It seems easy for her be so free judging by how you described this chick. She is one of those Ima stay on the fence type of chicks. Not really accepting her actions and stuff. Do you know if she "really even is Bisexual?." I know of chicks that would romantically kiss me too while sloppy drunk and all. But Im basically a homosex male you know so thats just all in fun and games. Shoot some chicks like doing it as some kind of "look at me" trend. And if you gave it to her orally it sounds like she was into it only for a nut. Ugh how effin selfish but you know those deceitful people are out there...However your feelings are involved and thats something very serious. She needs to be told not to "F" with your "effin" feelings!. My bad now I went on a rant for you. Ha ha but please try and protect your heart more better. You deserve someone who will really love you back. I know I don't know you but I have some good sense. Can tell that you have a big heart so give all that loving to a Woman who knows your worth. Let that chick have her little Bf don't entertain her drama's. If she cared any it will hit her later on like a ton of bricks when you already moving on. If all else fails than Karma can quite possibly be the cruelest ***** ever. (wink)
What should my nickname be?
You are one of those people for whom it is best to use your full name - Brittany - Artistic, dignified, strong inside and out. This person's name is not clipped; It is full. But if you really want a nn handy, I would choose Bret...unique, pretty, very cool.
'Now slim Strips' and birth control...?
I'be bought some 'Now Slim Strips' ... they are paper thin sheets (like that chewing gum you used to be able to by) that dissolve on your tongue... your meant to place one on your tongue when you feel like snacking and it suppresses you hunger.. there are no precautions on the packaging or their website about the effects on the Contraception.. (AKA the pill).... but i wanted to make sure to see if anyone else has found that they are detrimental to birth control... so yer, they're hunger suppressants... not diet pills lol. Any other experiences while taking these strips would also be appreciated. many thanx.
Does the Noble Lie explain Judaism?
But, eating crackers and waving branches was not part of the original religion, it's part of holiday traditions that were created later. Tradition is not the same as religion, even though they are usually tightly married.
Girls, female friend opinion?
I'd really like to know if you think my female friend might have feelings for me. We've worked together for 2 years now. We're really close and she trusts me quite a bit. As a background she has told me that in general she is a shy person. We usually have boundaries up since we're "friends" and both are in relationships but I've noticed that she's touched me on the arm when i make her laugh or I got slapped recently (in front of others) for teasing her. This is only when I catch her off guard with a joke or teasing cause she is usually reserved and composed. But at other times she seems distant so I can't figure it out. She has called me a really good guy friend before, but then the other day when I returned from vacation she sent an email saying the "office" missed me (i don't have any other friends in the office) as well as the girls at the coffee shop we frequent twice a day. So does anyone think she might have suppressed feelings or is being friendly?
Why are more women in the US converting to Islam than men 4 to 1?
People in the US and canada and west in general are made to believe islam is suppressing women... yet they are converting more than men... even though it is thought that men are oppressing women in that religion... so whats going on here? why are more women converting to islam...
Men = Unfinished Projects?
Sex addicts? Give me a break, there is nothing wrong with sexuality but when you cross the line of disrespect then you get the boot. Maybe you're bitter that someone didn't put up with your "addiction" try to have some respect and learn what the meaning of that is before you go on your sexual addiction rant.
PLEASE ANSWER!! I can't get rid of my feelings for her regardless of what she did?
i know this really sucks but to answer ur first ques, she will never give u a chance. Shell be ur friend again but not if u keep bringing up dating. its really cold but its true. i can just tell youll always be in the friend zone wit her. If u want to forget her just remember, there are 4billion + girls in the world and ur only 18 u got ur wholeee life ahead of you dude. There so many more girls ur gunna meet. Just think about how many cute girls u see when u go to an amusment park. every time u go theres another girl. This girl isnt worth it cuz theres a better one out there thats actually going to like you back. If u want her back as a friend, just tell her " i understand you only view me as a friend and I respect that. As much as i like you i do still want to be friend with you and i wont let my feelings get in the way"
Atheists: at the risk of being deleted...again?
What is the difference between the theory that life was caused by abiogenesis, and the theory that life was caused by an intelligent designer? Both theories lack any physical evidence. So why is abiogenesis accepted and creation by an intelligent designer rejected? Someone argued, "If God created life, why isn't He still causing spontaneous creation?" I countered, "If abiogenesis caused life, why isn't IT still turning non-living matter into living matter?"
Do you think I owe my father something?
So the thing is, I know his name and where he lives (long story) but I've never met him. He isn't even aware of my existence. My mom got pregnant in high school and never told him. I just found out about him about 5 years ago. Me and my mom had a lot of issues after this all came out, so my life consisted of basically fighting with her all the time, but now that our relationship is moving in the right direction she's saying maybe it would be a good idea to just meet him. I really don't want to. I'm scared of being rejected. Actually, terrified of being rejected by him. I was talking to my fiancee the other day and she thinks I should at least contact him. She said "Don't you think you owe him that much?" That kind of made me mad. I mean, I owe him? I told her "He's a total stranger, how do I owe him?" and we went back and forth for awhile but I digress. I'm very content with just living my life not ever knowing him, but I don't know if that would be the right choice. Do I owe him something?
Why do i suppress all my feelings?
Take little steps. Like let yourself get to know someone and make a lot of friends. Tell old friends you miss them. Friends are very important. And whenever that special someone comes along, you won't miss it because you were too scared or whatever the case. It seems that you may be scared of getting hurt.
Do you get mad when someone said that you are short?
ok like this my husband's sisterinlaw doesn't see, to like me because every time when she saw me and she got friend with her she start to open her mouth and said look at her she sooo short, look she so short tiny. I look at her and act like I doesn't care. You know why she do that to me because she is my hubby mom side of cousin that use to like him when I was dating him but he rejected her and I guess she is still jealous of me. She got married to his younger brother. Yeah I am short but I don't care of what she said. what do you do if you were in that situation?
Will this idea of mine work?
Yes - your undies will be in the way, and they are not sterile. Sorry, but (no pun intended) you have to grin and bear it. Sorry.
ISLAMIC RULE & PROXIMITY in India--What about example of well flourishing HINDUISM under its cover?
responding to RNPKB: In Pakistan all the relics of Hindu era are well preserved at the State expense. To name a few' Katas Raj Mandir (said to be the oldest in SubContinent) ; Sita Kund, Laxman Kund (pronounced here as Lachchman);Ram Kund; Mata Hanglaj Mandir where Sri Ram Chandar went for Ashirbad before proceedin on to Runn of Kutch Island (mis-understood as the present day Sri Lanka). The birth place of Sri Ram Chandar called Ajudhan Ajudhia in the past now called PakPattan has been upgraded to a District Head Quarter status. It is a brief account. Exclusive Funds are budgeted for scholarship to nonMuslims. . . who have occupied positions of Minister in Center and provinces, Chief Justice of Pakistan, Generals in Army and Police, Ambassadors, Civil and Military Officers, Professors, Doctors, Academicians, Members of national sports' teams .. .. .. I have not mentioned Sikh relics equally well preserved and honoured. There are good persons in both the countries.
Every time i masterbate the next day someting bad happens...?
Its not like someone dying... its little things like not getting a new game or a girl rejecting me or a freing being a dbag...
Why do amphetamines suppress appetite?
Amphetamines are like having a long lasting rush of adrenaline (epinephrine). The sympathetic nervous system is activated, so increased fight or flight response to muscles and breathing and decreased rest and digestion. So the hormones and paracrines factors that stimulate digestion and hunger are suppressed in their secretion. I am not sure if they 'block' the brain receptor directly but you have the right idea. The stomach expands and shrinks to the food in it, so if it does not have alot of food it will be contracted.
U.S. Jews not able to fly on Delta flights to Saudi Arabia - Are you kidding me?
Saudi Arabia is a Muslim country, not an Islamic one. YES, there's a difference. Many things done in Saudi are actually kinda contradictory to the Qur'an or done to an extreme level. Don't mistake government flaws for error in religion.
Aren't Christians the least different people than Atheists?
I think the biggest difference between Christians and atheists are the amount of shits given when concerning what other people do.
Is it normal for Leos to obsesse over scorpio guys?
is it. My Leo friend has been crazy obsessed over a scorpio guy for like 6 months. shes rejected like 40 times, and keeps going. Not to mention my case.....and" No im not stuck on her."
I have a problem of overeating. i do eat vegetbles, fruit and wholemeal and fibre.. i also have an addiction?
for sweet stuff chocs, cakes,biscuits sweets etc i want to be able to have tabletss that will suppress my appetite and craving or have a sensation of being full in my stomach so i wont have desire to overeat
What is the best kind of navel jewelry is best for a newly pierced belly button?
I am wanting to get my navel piercing back, I had one for six months and it rejected, but I found out why it rejected. So, I was thinking to get it re pierced. But, I wanna no if the circular one is best or the bar bell for the first 6 weeks. &* Also, I have had my last navel ring out for 3 months. Do you think it's healed enough to get re pierced?
Why do muslim women wear jeans?
Because jeans aren't immodest. If you wear long shirts with jeans, then you're fine. Although I have utmost respect for my sisters who take modesty to the next level, such as, Orthodox Jewish women, or abaya-wearing Muslimahs, modesty doesn't have to mean looking old-fashioned or frumpy. Have you seen how many hijabi fashion blogs there are? Or hijabi fashion/beauty gurus on youtube?
Sony F21z1e Nivia onscreen message for some 3d?
ok my computer when i play some 3d stuff says " This application is not rated by nvidia corp rating unknown press cortl alt insert to toggle this info. The screensavers are auto running in 3d which id like to stop going 3d auto and also how do i suppress this nvidia message
How do I understand the different meanings of the torah?
It is my understanding that the Torah is the basis for Judaism. This is where a lot of the laws or rules are based from. I don't know about the meaning "yarah". Sorry. Do you believe in God? I think one has to ask themselves that because there are so many different ones out there. Are you starting a religion that doesn't believe in God? Just trying to get a better understanding. There is so much research out there that it can be over whelming. My best advice is to research and research some more. Judaism is taken very seriously by the ones who follow it.
Thursday, July 14, 2011
Are some people just predisposed to violence?
If your father was a violent man and he beat you, your siblings and your mother are you destined to do the same thing? What if his father was the same way too? What if you find it difficult to suppress your aggression and have an urge for violence. Can you really stop genetics?
Any lovely girls out there I can go on night outs with here in Dublin Ire?
After the break up, my ex have turned all my friends againts me & i know for sure it can't be fixed anymore... I would like to move on now & have new friends... I have friends in work but sure it stays there as they're either too young or older to hang out with me... Im 36 yeah but modesty aside, sometimes Im still being asked for ID when purchasing a liquior or goin in to pubs/clubs :)... I love dancing & chillin in too for movies or tele... I'd prefer girls who are 27-40, honest, matured enough, not bitchy or war freak, (i mean someone who can handle drinks) & loves dancing, movies, havin fun & laugh :))
(Questions for guys): Is it kind of skanky for a girl to have posters of famous guys on their wall?
So, this question is mostly directed toward men, but girls feel free to answer. My friend, my sister and I have been talking about modesty and just in general the differences between guys and girls. Now I know if I saw that a boy had pictures of a famous woman on their wall, I would probably be uneasy with it. BUT, as a girl, I never really thought of a girl that has pictures of guys on their walls as a bad thing. What do you think? Is it detestable for a girl to have posters/calendars/pictures of (mostly famous), attractive boys on their wall? How do you boys see it as?
Is the system designed to keep us down?
Hey stupid, unless you want 3 year olds running the country and undisciplined 15 year olds driving commercial airplanes, stfu. There needs to be age limits on things otherwise this country would run to poop
Gender studies, today I got rejected 4 times today, and one of them was a fat gurl, I got reject by a fat gurl?
because you talk to them like they are an object. Girls want love and passion. They don't want to be used.
Diet to prevent virus?
I would like to know what is the best way to prevent viruses in the body. If one has herpes virus what is the best diet to keep so that the viruses can be suppressed.
Why are majority of Muslims so?
The majority of NON-ARAB Muslims are sincere. The majority of Arab Muslims are racist hypocritical jahil bigots- the worst in kufr and nifaq as the Quran says
I really want a boyfriend!?
I really want a girlfriend too seriously maybe you should try talking to guys and flirt with them... trust me i know how u feel but rite now im feeling way worse knowing that i had a chance and i let it almost completely pass i never felt like this before i feel like i wanna kill myself do urself a favor talk to any guy the first chance you get and dont give up u dont wanna feel how i do..
Hewitt family vs Firefly clan?
The Hewitts from the Texas Chainsaw Massacre remakes, Tommy "Leatherface" & Sheriff Hoyt vs Rob Zombie's Firefly clan/Devil's Rejects, Otis Driftwood & Captain Spaulding, 2 vs 2 fight to the death, who comes out the winner?
Are these good qualities to have?
I would consider myself a free thinker according to those definitions, but I am very tolerant of other people's religions, and I enjoy learning more about them. I would also say I have an open mind which is in part why I am an atheist. I am open to every religion the same, but they can't all be true. I am staying in my position of no religion unless one proves to be true over the others.
Don't you agree with the Pope that people should go nude if their hearts are pure, forgetting biased inter-?
I looked up your sources and could find nothing about the Pope.Are you making this up and if so why?
Should I be upset with her?
Me & my mom were talking. I was telling her about how one of my friends auditioned for modeling and acting career & she got accepted. Not to be mean but she's a bit chubby.... to be a model. Then my mom blurts out "I got calls when you were younger from people asking if you could be used for modeling".. Of course after that I was like WTF & you didn't accept??! Her excuse was " Well I didn't want anything big to come out of it. Like you're a great singer and I didn't want you to become a child star. You needed a normal childhood" I am not one of those girls who go around talking about how ugly I am because I don't think I'm ugly and I think girls who do that either have problems or just want attention. Back to what I was saying. I could have been somebody more than I am today but it's my mom's fault I'm not because she rejected! Should I be upset? Would you be upset?
What is wrong with me and why am I like this?
My head is like chaos... it is like suppressed thoughts all going round in my head at once. Sometimes I get flashbacks of bad things that have happened in my life (being bullied etc) and it is making my life hell. I have a new friend called Sharon and she said I could come up to her house but when I got there she said she didn't want me there so I suddenly felt even worse... like intense rage and went back home and started slashing my wrists to get rid of all the pain. On top of that, I have a 'friend' that comes round everyday just to use my internet connection and drink my tea and when I tell him to leave or when I am going to go out he starts complaining and saying that I don't think of other people so I am forced to stay in while he downloads games but I don't know how to get rid of him because if I try too hard he shouts at me. I feel like I am a messed up individual in this chaotic world. I am confused and don't know what to do anymore... The only thing that really briefly takes my mind off everything is visiting my local graveyard and sitting on the bench. I talk to the dead people, they are the only real friends I have. My stomach and chest doesn't feel right, I have often thought of what a relief it would be to stab myself in the chest, not just to die but to get rid of that numb feeling that I have in my chest.
One of my friend’s sister diagnosed bipolar disorder by the Doctors. The Doctors suggested medications, respod?
As you feel, it is better to consult a psychiatrist and discuss with him threadbare about all these problems.
Should/how can i be more open?
Im gay and i told my mother this when i was 12. At the time she went into denial and would always tell me i was just "confused". This lasted up until 8th grade when i started being bullied over my sexuality. Now im in highschool and i am certain of my sexuallity. I have had a very hard time bringing up the subject of who im interested in to my mother, on the count of the fact that she is constantly thinking im dating girls that im just close friends with. Sometimes when the time calls for it she will very quickly mention me being gay but always seems to mention it as if it where a condition i had or a disease.She has even sent me to a religious councilor when i was younger and his approach to my sexuality was that i needed to suppress it. I took this as a grain of sand and soon was able to quit going. I feel that in order for me and my mother to become closer i need to be able to openly discuss my interests in love and relationships but im not sure i can. My question is... Should i try to establish openes about this topic with my mom? and if i should how do i do so?
Should i get my belly button pierced again?
so i got it pierced, and they said i have a shallow belly button but it should be fine. i had it about 3 months. i had problems for about 2 to 2 1/2 months. when i went back for the 3rd time the piercer told me it was rejecting. so i had to take it out, and now its healing. i want it done again, it looks so good! but i dont know if its worth getting it repierced. im afraid its gonna reject again, or get infected, or just get alllll messed up again, and i dont want a huge scar. what do you think i should do?
Other then females in sex industries, sexual desire of female is suppressed by them ?
Females never take lead on bed for having sex, is it their nature or they just try to act. Mostly housewifes show very less interest in having frequent sex. Most of the time they reject their husbands desire. Where are those in sex trade they have of different men and 6 - 7 times a day ? How is it possible for a girl to carry on , till what time ?
Why do some reject Jesus when the Bible contains detailed historical records of His life with supporting proof?
You're going to have to do better than that. Please, by all means, tell us this "supporting proof" you speak of. All you've done so far is said that a book says a man exists therefore he does.
Who is gaga about this Rino Perry?
On 11 April 1987, Senator Gore of Tennessee announced his candidacy. He stated that he believed he could offer, "clearer goals" than the other candidates.[1] Current Texas Governor, Republican Rick Perry, who at the time was a Democrat, was Gore's campaign chairman in Texas for his 1988 campaign.[2] During the Democratic debate, Gore argued that his foreign policy platform was different from his rivals, but they disagreed. " 'I reject Gore's efforts to try to pin labels,' Representative Richard A. Gephardt of Missouri told reporters after the event." [3] At the time of the announcement, Senator Gore was 39 years old, making him the "youngest serious Presidential candidate since John F. Kennedy.
Apprehensive about working @ abercrombie&fitch?
Well jobs are hard to come by so take what you get. See what happens for the next couple of weeks, don't like it, go job hunting. keep the job until you find one you like better then quit. Good luck!
France doesn't respect Human Rights?
Why? They banned the Full face Veil, They Deported Roma people, They have Suppressed Regional Languages e.g. ( Breton and Basques), They have increased the retiring age and etc. I thought France was founded by Human Rights belief.
Email problems on Mac AND iPhone. Help!?
I have an AOL account and its my primary email in Mail on my Mac and iPhone. Yesterday, on my mac it began having problems and saying it could not connect to the server or some crap. This morning, It began saying my password was rejected. I confirmed this was not the case by logging in on aol.com. I decided to try and change my password to see if that would help, it did not. And now my iphone will not connect to mail. I already went into settings and changed the password to the new one. I keeps saying my password is incorrect. I've done countless reboots, quits, etc. nothing is working. Anyone know the solution?
This girl readded me?
Im a guy and i sat beside a girl in class and i added her to facebook and then we had a facebook convo and i said she was not worthy to be on my list and deleted her. Then after i deleted her i sent another request the next day and i also sent some msgs like yoo $lut, go make me a sandwich kthxx :) and hi ugly :) and i said i was sorry for being mean and she said to stop sending her messages or she was gona report me. Then i called her babe and told her to add me again and she replied babe? I donr think so. So it stopped but i kept looking at her profile and it kept saying friend request sent so she didnt reject it. Then i canceled the request and readded her nd she accepts it this time. Please no hateful comments, it was just a joke.
Wednesday, July 13, 2011
I need help losing weight.?
NO FAST FOOD! try a home cooked meal, like chicken with rice or some salads. limit your sugar take in!
Why is there so much hypocrisy when it comes to finding people attractive due to their looks?
Read about half of it and completely agree with you there. People can say what they want but if the other person doesn't float your boat physically then what's the point.
I can't think sexually of people I'm close to?
I have a somewhat strange case. I'm a 17 year old male and I've been in what would be best called dysthymia for years, and I have depressive episodes over the most minor of things. I have never dated and I have had remarkably few crushes in my life. The thing is, I can't feel sexual attraction to anyone that I'm close to. I have mostly female friends, and although I can say that some of them are attractive, I am not sexually attracted to any of them, and I could never date them. I am very close with some of my female friends, in fact, all of my best friends are female, and with one exception, females are the only people I can confide in. That said, I confide in relatively few people. Of the relatively few crushes that I have had, I've only ever told anyone about two of them, and only after much prodding. I always hold in immense fear what would happen if said person found out I had a crush on them. This is strange, as I convey a rather quirky, unconventional persona and rarely care at all what most people think of me. I have toyed with the idea that I am asexual, but this isn't the case. I masturbate occasionally and sometimes (rarely) I watch internet porn. I honestly feel mildly attracted to both men and women, but I would never act on my attraction to men; I am primarily attracted to women and would identify myself as straight. (I sort of identify with the Kinsey scale of sexuality, on which I would be more on the straight side but still mixed.) But, I still cannot imagine entering into a romantic or sexual relationship with anyone that I am close to. I alternate between hating meeting new people and being a social butterfly with new people, the former being more common. I have always wanted to get married and have kids, but I've always pictured the marriage as more a very close friendship, and I have only rarely thought of the sexual elements. In a few cases, even dating back to 2nd-3rd grade, I have outright rejected romantic attempts from close female friends, because I was incapable of thinking of them that way. In short, WHAT THE F--K IS WRONG WITH ME?
Why do people get so uptight when someone says they said I love you to their gf/bf after 4 months?
If that is how you feel then the opinions of others are unimportant. However I have never been in a serious relationship so therefore I cannot relate to these feelings. But that does not mean that I don't understand where your coming from. Besides, my world could use a little more love in it right about now, so its good to see someone who is happy.
Am I in love, but I dont want it to be?
She hates me, I hate her, but my mood changes from hate to love everyday, one moment I wanna strangle her with her own hair, the other I dont wanna keep her away from me, I've written songs in how much I hate and love her, I asked her out but she rejected me, since then I've hated her, and shes hated me, but goddamn shes gorgeous as f-ck, I've never seen a girl more beautiful than her, shes perfect. But the next day, I hate her with a fiery rage that cant stop and we dont talk so I just abuse her whenever her topic comes up in my friends (shes not there when I do), but I just cant stop thinking about her, weather I hate her or like her, shes the only thing on my mind. That f-ckin beautiful b-tch. My friends keep on telling me I'm in love and I say "f-ck no, I'd rather f-ck a stray dog with rabies without a condom on" (LOL line, I know) but now I feel that they may be right. But she hates me, and many days I hate her, but when I like her, I feel like a hollow piece of wood, and when I hate her, I wanna beat her up with a hollow piece of wood. Is this love or am I just crazy? I dont want it to be love, its gonna be terrible for me, be honest, if I stay confused its gonna be worse.
Do some Republicans want you to NOT vote, two were just Criminally indicted for Fraud, is this typical?
I don't believe in Democracy ... I just believe in the sovereignty of this country and that she's stolen and we must restore her !!
How is "boyfriend" different than friend? Please just give me the real difference.?
I have a bit of a complicated question that requires a little background, but I need an answer as I am currently at a crossroad and I don't know what to do. I'm an 18 year old male that just graduated 1st in my high school class and now I'm enjoying a relaxing summer. Over the years, I have developed a no-relationship policy to keep myself focused on academics. Anyway, I'm not the best at detecting when a girl is flirting with me, and from what I understand, flirtation is a sign that that individual likes you. Well, about a year ago, apparently there was a girl that started flirting and "crushing" on me. I didn't notice until she got really obvious with her flirtations. I suspected that it was just silly high school love that would die off in a month or some kind of hormonal imbalance that was directed at any male within proximity. But these obvious flirtations continued, till the present. Of course, my friends caught on and now they are encouraging me to date her. She has even suggested that we should "step up the relationship," most likely to the boyfriend/girlfriend stage. First of all, I've never been there, so I don't know what to expect. Secondly, she is an attractive girl and... aggressive? when it comes to getting what she wants. (first time I've ever grinded at a dance was with her, and totally initiated by her) Anyway, my friends keep saying things about her anatomy and her personality that suggests that if I were to get in a bf/gf relationship, it would get more intimate than I would like. I can't figure out if they are joking or not, and I'm a horrible judge of these things, so my question is, what exactly does the status of Boyfriend mean? How is it any different than being a friend and what would she expect from me if we moved onto that stage. In other-words, what more does she want in our relationship? Also, is there some kind of secret social protocol that requires couples who are dating to get sexually involved (maybe not a home run but at least second base http://xkcd.com/540/ if you need clarification), because I've realized this year that nearly all my friends, all at the top of the class, are involved with mutual sexual satisfaction in their relationships. All my life I've been told to be good and suppress my she wolf, but now it seems society wants me to let her out. I hope you can help me, currently I have about 1 week and a half before anything major can happen because she is off in another country for a visit, so I'm safe. Can't wait to hear your response.
Why are boys and girls allowed to swim in the same pool?
at my daughters school next year, in PE there will be a swim unit and boys and girls have it together? Why is this allowed? Wouldn't this make girls feel uncomfortable and open them up to potential harassment? Also, why are boys allowed to be shirtless even in the presence of girls? Why is no sense of modesty maintained?
How to suppress appetite naturally?
i already hit the gym pretty much every other day, and i run 3 miles when im not at the gym, but i always find myself going for snacks, or feeling like i am starving, mostly when i have nothing to do and i am bored. i am looking for an easy natural way to curve my appetite, and i don't have alot of money to spend! thanks:)
Feeling sick all the time like my food's not sitting right?
The past week i've been feeling sick quite often, and extremely thirsty. I have been drinking a lot of water but it doesn't seem to help! My mouth is always dry and I feel really thirsty no matter what. The water seems to pass through me quickly too, like it's not getting absorbed. If I eat, the nausea sometimes gets the best of me, and I end up throwing up. The food is super dry when it comes up, like I haven't been drinking anything to help with the digesting, so my stomach rejects it. I don't know why any of this is happening. What do you think it could be? Pregnancy, diabetes. just a stomach bug?
No girl will ever love, not even like me. I'm overweight and ugly and nobody likes or cares for my existence?
Every girl I like rejects me. I'm not going for the wrong girl, whatever that means. The girls I like are usually smart, respectable and beautiful. When being rejected, most of the time it's in a nicer way like sorry but you're not my type, or something. Still hurts real bad but better than walking away hearing her, with her friend laugh. I'm sorry if I don't drink or get high or anything that most people my age (17) do. I have no way to meet girls now that schools over or any way to start a conversation. All I want is for someone to like and care about me and to talk to and to be in a relationship with and to support me and help me with my problems and someone to spend my time with and someone to love but thats not the case with me, no, it's the opposite I'm sitting on the computer on a weekend, 4th time on yahoo answers complaining about my problems trying to get help when I know I wont but this is all I have. Nobody else to help or talk to, I don't have any friends, I don't get invited anywhere. I've been depressed for over a week for this and more problems that I dont want to talk about right now. Please please don't say there's someone for everyone or "one day youll find someone" because I've been told that and people only say it when they know I'm right and I will be alone forever and they just want to be nice and try to help but sometimes this gets me depressed enough to keep me up all night and make me tear a bit and more but whatever I guess this is how life is going to be like until whenever I die
Christians have often praised Anthony Flew for his eventual rejection of atheism in favor of Deism but.....?
He still remained resistant to the Christian idea of God, so it's not like Anthony Flew's Deism is a win for them either.
What is up with the way teenage girls dress nowadays?
I agree. I'm a 13 year old girl and I am ashamed to say I am. My school isn't that bad with girls dressing like that, but there's this one group of girls in my grade of like 5 or 6 girls that dress and act like sluts. You know? The type that can't be seen without a boyfriend or with their boobs and butts hanging half way out? I hate that group of girls. The people I hang with only wear shirts like aeropostale that cover everything up, and shorts that aren't any shorter than mid thigh. I'm proud to say I don't dress like a prostitute.
Is it ok to ask her again? or not?????????(10pts)?
Hang out with her as much as you can. Soon, hopefully, she'll fall for you. Ask her out again when you feel that she's into you and you know in your gut.
Other ways of being involved with the Military?
I've wanted to join the Military since I was 4. Both my parents are retired Army, and it has been something I've planned to do all my life. When I was 17, I got rejected from all branches due to Mild Cerebral Palsy in my lower extremities. Unfortunately, there's nothing I can do to further my mobility issues. I can still walk/run ect but I'm just not "up to par" regardless. Are there other ways to be involved in the Military? It's just really disheartening, because again, this is something I've wanted since I've been 4, I'm 19 now.